How to Manifest Love From a Specific Person (the Right Way) - SelfMadeLadies (2024)

How to manifest a soulmate is the number one topic on my manifestation blog. And it’s definitely something I love to write about (I did not only manifest my husband, including my dream wedding, but I also helped many of the women in our community to find true love with the help of the law of attraction.)

And there is not much that is more fulfilling than a great love success story.

So yes, manifestation works for love, no doubt. But the big question remains if it also works to get that special person to fall in love with you…

First, the short answer: You can manifest a relationship with a specific person. What is not possible is to manifest someone else to fall in love with you if you are not on the same vibrational alignment.

It means you can’t manifest against someone’s will.

But if this other person is aligned with you (which means the right match for you), then it’s absolutely possible that you can use the power of the universal laws and attract your special one.

And yes, you can also manifest your ex back. I did that (when my husband decided he was no longer happy in our relationship).

And I’m going to show you how…

Manifesting love is a complicated topic. Because a lot of emotions are involved, and more than one person.

So you see, getting that special someone to fall in love with you is not as straightforward as manifesting anything else to create your dream life. The main reason for this is: that it affects not just you.

You can’t just manifest a specific person because that’s what YOU desire. Only like attracts like.

That’s what the universal law of attraction stands for.

And if you now think: but I’m sure I’m the right one for my desired partner, I get you. I know very well what it’s like to be unhappily in love. The last thing you want to hear in this situation is that you can’t make someone fall in love with you, even if this is your deepest desire.

But I don’t want to give you false hopes; my number one reason why I started this blog is that I wanted to make a change in this niche- there is too much BS manifesting advice out there (that only goes after you click…)

I really don’t like when a manifestation coach tells you that everything is possible just to keep your hopes up.

Sure, with the Law of Attraction, you can basically manifest anything you want, but only as long as no other person gets harmed or you would have to influence their free will.

But don’t worry; after reading this post, you will understand why it’s a good thing that you can’t manifest anything. Because sometimes, we need a bit of time to reflect and come to a conclusion that everything makes sense the way it is.

Let’s just say this is the universe’s way of protecting us from doing the wrong things…

So to answer the question of how to manifest a specific person, the right way is to do it with ethical intent.

Here’s the thing: Manifestation means that you can change and create your own reality.

And while you can also manifest for someone else, you can only do so in their best interest, and it’s quite frankly not our decision what is best for them.

So if you want to manifest love with a specific person, it’s not just about the question of “what you want” – but also about “what they want.” That’s when you are an energetic match.

And that’s the only way to successful manifestation.

So let me ask you an important question before I give you some tips on how to actually attract this person: do you REALLY want to have a relationship with this person?

Because if this person is not a vibrational alignment to you, you may end up attracting someone who doesn’t truly love you. Or you are manifesting an ex back that is no longer in love with you.

Especially when you want to manifest someone back into your life, you need to first reflect on why this relationship ended. There was most probably a good reason that you were not together anymore. And that’s something to keep in mind.

It’s not said that getting back together with your ex is always a bad idea. After all, I did it myself.

And I even know a couple that got divorced, then got back together after ten years, and they couldn’t be happier.

But I would reflect on such a break-up and not try to force something out of a current feeling.

However, if the romantic partner of your choice is the perfect match for you and it’s also his/her desire to be with you, then, of course, go on and manifest that special someone.

Or start by asking him/her out for a first date.

So how do you manifest your crush to love you back without having to force things?

Well, to manifest a specific person follows the same principles as how to manifest love from someone you don’t know yet. So I would definitely suggest you read this post next.

But here are five specific steps you can take to manifest your desired partner:

In case this person is taken, please be very careful with your actions.

I won’t tell you not to invest your energy into the desire to manifest this specific person, but I also don’t think that the universe will have your back if you try to force yourself into a well-functioning relationship.

If you have read my story on how I manifested my husband Tom, then you know that we were both still in a relationship when we met for the first time. However, both of us were unhappy in the relationship.

I also didn’t focus on him as a specific person but on the kind of partner and ideal relationship, I wanted. Turns out that he was just my perfect match.

I do believe true love will find each other, but keep that point in mind what I mentioned at the beginning of this post: We want to do this in an ethical way.

I think reflecting on his/her situation will also give you more clarity about what you really want.

So when you manifest that special someone, you have ONE big advantage. You know exactly what you want. And this person already exists in your life.

And while I would suggest reflecting on the question of “what you want” first when manifesting love, you can really skip that one. What you could do instead is to reflect on the type of relationship you want to manifest.

Here are a few questions that can help you with this:

Manifestation always starts within you. You have to clear your own limiting beliefs around love; you have to become open to welcoming your ideal person into your life.

It’s about programming your subconscious mind in a way that opens up to giving and receiving love. You have eliminated blocks that may prevent you from having a good relationship.

Especially when you want to manifest an ex back into your life, it’s very important to give this step a lot of attention. Reflect on why your past relationship ended and what you can do t make it better when you get together.

That was KEY when I manifested my hubby back after he left me.

Vibrational alignment is important, and when you want to manifest a specific person, this is just not a one-sided thing. It always takes two for a relationship to work.

But you can do your part.

Think about what would make the perfect match for this other person.

It’s not about changing yourself to be loved. It’s about getting the vibration that would make a good relationship between you and this particular person.

There are many great abundance-attracting methods in the law of attraction toolbox you can choose from, for example, positive affirmations or guided meditations (click here, and I’ll send you my favorite session for free!)

But the best tip I can give you is to accept (and enjoy) your current circ*mstances no matter what your love life looks like right now.

And you do that by practicing gratitude, one of my favorite tools when manifesting.

Be grateful for the simple fact that you know this special person. (Think about how awful it would be if you wanted to attract love, but you just can’t find someone you actually like.)

You are in love. Embrace that love. And more love will follow!

Without action, nothing in your life will manifest.

That’s just how it is. Taking inspired action is the most important manifestation step.

And it’s no different when you attract your ideal partner.

Instead of sitting around, hoping that the person you desires falls in love with you or that your crush asks you out for a date, how about you take that first step?

Your subconscious (and that’s where the manifestation magic really happens) works a bit like an avalanche:

How about asking your desired person for a date? Or, if it’s your ex you want to get back, how about signaling that you are still in love and that you would like to talk?

Once you have done the above steps, gained more clarity, and become more emotionally aligned with your desired outcome (by overcoming blocks and self-doubt), you’ll have enough confidence to take this big (inspired) step.

You’ll see.