"Love is said to be pure when you detach your desires and expectations from your love for them."
By doing so, your love starts to blossom like a flower, and its fragrance not only makes your life beautiful but theirs too.
You love them without any intention, as you don't want anything from them in return.
You are willing to do anything for them to make them smile, and you will always protect them.
Furthermore, you always put your ego aside when they really need you, even if you're angry with them.
1.) Attachment: You need to let go of your attachment if you really want to love someone without hurting them.
The purest form of love requires the willingness to give freedom to your loved ones.
You let them go if they're not happy with you.
You don't want to hurt them for your selfishness in having them in your life at any cost.
Their happiness is your priority, and you will always treat them with love and respect.
2.) Expectations: You are not in love with them because you think that they are beneficial for you or because you want something from them.
You love them simply because you do. No reason is required to love someone.
Loving someone without any kind of expectation is actually the purest form of love.
You start loving someone selflessly.
3.) Waiting: Waiting is a symbol of true and pure love.
If you are willing to wait for someone for years without any promise, then you are experiencing the purest form of love on earth.
Only that person is capable of waiting for you who doesn't want anything in return but is willing to be with you.
If you find such a person in your life, then you are truly blessed.
4.) Patience: If you hurt them, and they still talk to you with the same love and respect, then they truly love you.
People tend to be patient with those they value more than themselves.
Good things happen to those who know how to be patient with themselves and others.
5.) Honesty: Without honesty, no love is pure. You need to be honest with yourself and the other person.
You know that they are irreplaceable, and no one will ever be capable of filling that absence in your life.
Not only that, but you will always feel empty inside without them, no matter how happy or satisfied you are with your life.
You understand that only they are capable of making you feel whole and alive again.
Loving someone the way they are and loving them until your last breath without expecting anything in return is the purest form of love.
If your heart is pure and your intentions are true, only then can you say that you are blessed enough to feel that love in your life for someone.
Even God Krishna came on earth to feel this kind of pure love.
The reason you found him at the feet of Radha Rani is because no one can repay the debt of true love, and all you can do is love them back.